The best thing to do is to reduce the pursuit and observe what happens when you stop being the one who constantly maintains contact.
A balanced relationship needs reciprocity: both people should show interest, initiate conversations and dedicate time to the bond, because when only one person makes that effort it ends up affecting self-esteem and increasing uncertainty.
In this case, distance is useful for obtaining information if you stop writing to him; does he also make an effort to maintain contact?
2. Regain your focus and reinvest it in yourself
The second decision is to prevent someone else’s behavior from determining your emotional state throughout the day.
Constantly checking your phone, analyzing when it was online, wondering why it didn’t respond while waiting to receive a message can fuel a state of vigilance and anxiety.
It’s important to get back into routines; it’s about regaining emotional autonomy.
When your well-being depends excessively on receiving attention or validation from another person, any change in their behavior can feel much more intense than it should.
